Today marks our One year wedding anniversary! May 19th, 2007 will always be a special day for us- memories of family and friends, the Lord's gracious presence, the beautiful (and hot!) sunny day, riding in the carriage and the beginning of a life-long love. ( Jeremy thought of that last one, I am quite impressed now!) Today after work we celebrated by watching our wedding video, looking through our photos and eating our year old wedding cake.

People always say that the first year of marriage is a difficult one... and it was. However, it wasn't difficult for the reasons many couples would usually cite. We enjoyed adjusting to living together, learning to be more selfless, discovering the good, bad and ugly of our habits and personalities and sharing our lives together. It was hard because of health issues- but it was better because we were married- able to help carry one another through those tumultuous times. In some ways, it's as if we have only been married a few weeks- in other ways, it seems like we've been in each others lives forever.
We decided to each share some of our favorites from this last year ... and to continue to reflect beyond this blog. We've enjoyed creating the tradition of daily (sometimes only weekly) walks... sharing in the beauty of nature as we share ourselves. We've enjoyed reading in bed each night and praying together before drifting to sleep. We have enjoyed the companionship of living with your best friend, and sharing in the joys (and sorrows) together. We have loved the fact that our house is a home when we live together. And we have enjoyed struggling through life together; being tired and crabby, and yet still able to laugh at our stupid jokes we have together. One thing about a marriage is that even if you feel nobody else understands or cares about what you are going through, you always have at least one person who can relate and hold your hand and be there for you. And that is what has made our marriage good this first year; not because things have gone great, but because our God has faithfully brought two broken people together, in order to bring himself glory by persevering because of His goodness. And this is the true point. It is a humbling and confusing fact that our spouse is the second most important relationship we have in our lives, and that in heaven, our main relationship will be solely with God. And God has made himself known to us in our marriage, which is all we could really ask for.
Lastly, we thank all of you who have been a part of this past year- we so truly appreciate your support, prayers, wisdom and friendship. Tomorrow we are off to Northern Minnesota- specifically, Two Harbors, for a few days of relaxation and quality time to celebrate our One Year Anniversary! :) Pictures are sure to follow!
In Christ we stand,
Jeremy and Kate